ECB(i)
8 Whenever anyone calls you to a marriage recline not in the highest room; lest ever he calls a more honorable than you:
9 and he who called you comes and says to you, Give this one the place: and you begin to shame to hold on to the final place.
10 But when you are called, go and repose in the final place; so that whenever he who called you comes, he says to you, Friend, ascend higher! - then you have glory in the sight of them who repose with you.