RKJNT(i)
11 But refuse to enroll the younger widows: for when their sensual desires cause them to disregard their dedication to Christ, they will marry;
12 Thus incurring condemnation, because they have cast aside their first pledge.
13 Besides, they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.
14 Therefore, I want the younger women to marry, bear children, guide the house, and give the adversary no occasion to speak reproachfully.