Proverbs 25:8-10

ERV(i) 8 Go not forth hastily to strive, lest [thou know not] what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame. 9 Debate thy cause with thy neighbour [himself], and disclose not the secret of another: 10 Lest he that heareth it revile thee, and thine infamy turn not away.