Proverbs 25:9-13

ASV(i) 9 Debate thy cause with thy neighbor [himself],
And disclose not the secret of another; 10 Lest he that heareth it revile thee,
And thine infamy turn not away. 11 A word fitly spoken
Is [like] apples of gold in network of silver. 12 [As] an ear-ring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold,
[So is] a wise reprover upon an obedient ear. 13 As the cold of snow in the time of harvest,
[So is] a faithful messenger to them that send him;
For he refresheth the soul of his masters.